Capturing Content Without Ruining the Shot
Article Summary:
- Capturing behind-the-scenes wedding content can help pros showcase their work, attract clients and strengthen their brand. With clear communication and collaboration, pros can create engaging social media content without disrupting key moments or compromising professional deliverables.
- Clear communication, respect for must-have shots and thoughtful timing help vendors capture their work while preserving the couple’s experience. From documenting creative processes to highlighting the details and expertise they bring to a wedding, there are plenty of ways for pros to create engaging content without getting in the camera team’s way.
- Respecting image rights and posting preferences and crediting creative partners can strengthen vendor relationships, encourage referrals and create future collaboration opportunities.
Getting behind-the-scenes wedding content for social media can be hugely valuable for pros. At the same time, photographers and videographers have specific deliverables and plenty of fleeting big moments they need to capture.
This doesn’t have to stop pros from capturing some great content. The goal is to get your shots collaboratively and intentionally, without stepping on anyone’s toes. Maintaining good vendor etiquette can help strengthen professional relationships, lead to referrals and even create opportunities for future collaboration.
Communicate before the wedding day
Ideally, you don’t want to wait until the ceremony or room reveal to decide who’s capturing which moments. If your couple is working with a planner, they can establish expectations about content capture during final vendor communication. Otherwise, check with the photographer or videographer directly to see if there are moments when they prefer other vendors not to shoot.
Sometimes, in addition to a photographer and videographer, couples will hire a content creator to get more behind-the-scenes-style footage. It’s also worth clarifying their role and how they’ll coordinate with the photo and video teams.Check with your couple about their preferences when it comes to social posting, phone use and privacy during the wedding. A little communication ahead of time can help avoid friction later.
Terrica Skaggs, the founder and lead planner behind Cocktails & Details®, suggests approaching communication like the creative director at a shoot.
“Before the wedding, I reach out to every vendor and ask if there’s something specific they’re creating for this couple that they’d love captured. Then I pass that list to the photo and video team so it’s planned, not fought over. And I share every vendor’s social handle before and after the wedding, so everyone gets tagged and credited.”
Learn to recognize the “must-have shot”
There are certain wedding moments that are essential for photographers and videographers to capture. This isn’t an exhaustive list, but it’s best to stay out of the shot for:
- First looks
- The walk down the aisle/processional
- The couple’s first kiss and recessional
- Formal portraits
- Cake cutting
- First dance and parent dances
- Grand entrances and exits
- Emotional candid moments that are unfolding naturally
If you find yourself stepping into the photographer’s or videographer’s frame to try to get your content, don’t get the content! That one shot for your Instagram isn’t worth compromising a professional deliverable or your relationship with another vendor.
Don’t become the main character
There are plenty of ways to get the content you need without getting in the camera team’s way. Watch where photographers and videographers are positioned before moving for a better angle, and shoot from the sidelines rather than the center aisle during the ceremony. For getting-ready content, be aware of reflective surfaces like mirrors. If you see the photographer pointing a camera in your direction, assume you may be in their frame and adjust accordingly.
As for what not to do, don’t hold your phone above your head in a ceremony or reception crowd—it can easily obstruct the camera team’s line of sight. Also, avoid standing directly behind or beside the couple, even if you have a legitimate reason to be nearby.
Some practical advice from Terrica: “Shoot during setup, before guests arrive. That’s when your work looks its best and nobody is in your frame. Stand beside or behind the photographer, never in front, and skip the flash. If you need a shot of your finished work, ask the photographer for a two-minute window. Most will happily give it to you.”
Capture the work, not just the big moments
During the wedding, you can do more than just record the kiss or the first dance on your phone. Take the opportunity to showcase your services and what you specifically bring to the big day. Here are some examples of the kinds of footage you can get, based on what you do:
- Florists: Capture arrangements before the guests enter, installation footage, close-up floral details and your team setting up.
- Hair and makeup artists: Get clean workspace shots, product and detail footage, hair or makeup in progress and final looks before the photographer begins portraits.
- Planners: Snap the behind-the-scenes setup, stationery and details, timeline moments, room transformations and team coordination.
- Venues/caterers/other vendors: Highlight finished spaces, tablescapes, food presentation and pre-guest-arrival footage.
These kinds of shots can show potential clients what it’s actually like to work with you and give them a better sense of the experience and expertise you bring to a wedding.
Don’t direct the couple without coordination
You might be tempted to get the perfect footage of the couple or guests interacting with your work, but you don’t want to create unnecessary friction in the process. Avoid asking the couple to repeat moments like kisses, entrances or reactions solely for your content. In Terrica’s words, “If a moment only happens once, it belongs to the couple and their photographer.”
If you are hoping for a particular photo of the couple with your work, check with the photographer or planner when an appropriate time might be. Remember—couples already have a packed timeline on the wedding day and multiple pros asking for their attention.
Posting etiquette matters, too
The collaboration with the couple and their other vendors doesn’t end when the wedding does. Your first instinct after the celebration might be to add your favorite images to your portfolio or start posting them on social media. Before you do, check that the couple is comfortable with the content you want to share.
Be mindful, too, that some photographers or videographers will want to deliver previews before other vendors publish any content from the wedding. Giving them that space can go a long way toward maintaining a positive working relationship.
There are a few other best practices to keep in mind when posting wedding content:
- Tag and credit the appropriate creative partners.
- Never apply filters, crops or other edits to a photographer’s professional images without permission.
- Don’t assume that receiving an image automatically gives you unrestricted rights to use it.
- When in doubt, clarify image licensing and usage rights with the photographer rather than relying on informal assumptions.
Final thoughts
Rather than treating photographers, videographers and content creators as competitors for content, introduce yourself and start the conversation about how you can work well together. You should have plenty of opportunities for collaboration on the big day—even offering to share behind-the-scenes clips that feature another vendor at work is a great place to start. As Terrica says, “Content is a team sport. The best weddings to post about are the ones where every vendor knew the plan before the day began.”
With this collaborative approach, you can build a strong relationship with photographers and videographers whose work aligns with your brand. Remember, great vendor teamwork can deliver better content for everyone, without sacrificing the couple’s experience or the professional wedding imagery they’ve invested in.
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